I completed my
social justice event paper on the Whiteness Project. This project is an
assortment of videos by different white/Caucasian citizens who speak about
their opinions on race. The videos begin with the candidate suggesting that
most white people are afraid or intimidated to say they are proud of their
heritage in being white. The idea of white privilege and white’s being guilty
of “having power” is a big deal. The next candidate that left an impact on me said,
“More than 40% of white Americans say ‘many’ or ‘almost all’ black men are
violent.” For the most part I am totally against this statement, but in
situations where I am in the middle of a bad area and the population is
predominantly black males, I get a little frightened myself.
I related this
event to three readings and Lisa Delpit's "Silenced Dialogue," Peggy
McIntosh's White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack, and Allan
Johnson's Privilege, Power, and Difference. I chose Delpit’s Silenced Dialogue
because here Delpit looks at the culture of power within schools and the
significance of teachers often coming from different social and cultural
backgrounds than those of the students with whom they work. I believe this
relates to the Whiteness project because there they all discuss the culture of
power although this is not so much in the classroom but on the “streets.” One
quote that stood out to me that relates to this issue states, "they (white
people) won't listen; white folks are going to do what they want to do anyway.
It's really hard. They just don't listen well. No, they listen, but they don't
hear - you know how your mama used to say you listen to the radio, but you hear
your mother? Well they don't hear me." Honestly I find this to be very true;
I think white people find themselves viewing what they do as the correct way
versus anyone else’s.
The next reading I related it to is Peggy
McIntosh's White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack. I found the idea
behind this reading was very powerful. I loved the list of examples of
"White Privilege" in McIntosh's everyday life. This list relates to
this event, but two in particular stood out to me. For example, "if a
traffic cop pulls me over or if the IRS audits my tax return, I can be sure I
haven’t been singled out because of my race" and "I can be pretty sure that my neighbors
in such a location will be neutral or pleasant to me." I come from a town
that is not very diverse and I have heard these two phrases in my everyday
life. These quotes prove white’s believe they have more power and authority,
but most of the time they don’t realize it until situations like this come up.
The last reading I
related to was Johnson's Privilege, Power, and Difference. In Johnson's piece
he makes a statement, which talks about the social issues in our world and how
it is up to us to either make it worse or fix it. According to Johnson, "[A]
great deal of trouble surrounds issues of difference in this society, trouble
relating to gender and race [...] All of use are part of the problem. There is
no way to avoid that as long as we live in this world. But we could also make
ourselves part of the solution if only we knew how." I chose this quote
because it reminds me of this website. This issue of race can only change if we
want it to. Everyone has the power.
As I sat in the
dining hall at school completing this assignment, I decided to take a look
around. Usually whenever I am alone on campus, I people watch, but now that I
think about I find myself watching but not actually observing. Today I decided
to observe. As I look around there are people of all different kinds of races
surrounding me; whites, blacks, Asians, Hispanics, etc. I see a table full of
Asians sitting together whispering; I see a mixture of black and white soccer
players laughing; I see a table full of Latino/ Hispanic females talking; and I
see a table full of white girls with their MacBook’s and coffees, gossiping. In
the moment I felt as though I was in high school again. There were “cliques”
everywhere! Is this what the real world stays like? Do we stick to our races?
Is it because we feel equal and comfortable in these groups? It is quite
mind-blowing because you think the idea of separation of race is going away,
but it is the opposite.
Another outside source I found that relates to this
event I found on YouTube, “What is White Privilege? Here’s What People On The
Streets Have To Say.” I found this video to be interesting. The interviewer’s
final question was directed to those not white, she asked, how would you feel/
what would you do if you could be white for a day? Or where do you think you
would be if you were born white? Their reactions were astonishing, all answered
with positivity. They thought they would have had a better life as well as
treated with more respect. That tells you something. The last outside source is
my personal experience. I recently started waitressing at a well-known
restaurant.
The other day a huge African American family came in and was placed in my section. I was very nervous, but it was not at all because they were African American, but because I am new, I hate big parties. This family complained about everything under the sun, thus I had to get my manager involved. When I was talking to another waitress she said, “they are complaining because they want free food, that’s what black people do.” I just kind of starred at her in amazement, how could someone say that? I did not believe that at all. Another comment I received was, “Sam, I hope you know you aren’t getting a tip.” These comments made me feel very uncomfortable. At the end of their stay, I went over and said thank you and they asked me about school and how I liked working at Applebee’s. Then after they left I saw they left me almost a 50% tip. People are so quick to judge others. One of my favorite quotes is, “what you say about a person says more about you than that person.”
The other day a huge African American family came in and was placed in my section. I was very nervous, but it was not at all because they were African American, but because I am new, I hate big parties. This family complained about everything under the sun, thus I had to get my manager involved. When I was talking to another waitress she said, “they are complaining because they want free food, that’s what black people do.” I just kind of starred at her in amazement, how could someone say that? I did not believe that at all. Another comment I received was, “Sam, I hope you know you aren’t getting a tip.” These comments made me feel very uncomfortable. At the end of their stay, I went over and said thank you and they asked me about school and how I liked working at Applebee’s. Then after they left I saw they left me almost a 50% tip. People are so quick to judge others. One of my favorite quotes is, “what you say about a person says more about you than that person.”